Quotes by Abstract Distraxtions

    I only wish I were able to control my emotions all of the time, but it's not only my own emotions that I need to control.  If it were only my own then I would indeed be a powerful source likely all of the time, however the energy required to control my own and the impact others emotions have upon me, is so very tiring, leaving me totally fatigued the majority of the time.  It effects everything in my life, everything I do and everyone I see.  The more honest and real people are with themselves and others, the more positive energy they carry and the less they drain away my energy.   Similar to mathematics  Positive energy + positive energy = Bigger more positive energy It is sadly the negative energies others have around me, that try to suck the love right out of my soul.  For example if my positive energy is at 5 and I'm around 4 people who have negative energy of -2 each, then  Positive energy 5 + (4 x negative -2) is  5 + (-8) or 5 - 8 = (-3)  So around 4 negative people

I believe we gain great strength from forgiving ourselves and others, however I believe there may still be an element of truth withing these few words for some people, unless they can whole heartedly believe in forgiveness. 

Eventually even the hardiest of rocks will slip and fall.  Don't beat yourself if you're having a bad day, we all make mistakes and have many blunders throughout our lifetimes. It's a part of the learning curve of life, we make mistakes and we learn from them. 

Even when the feelings hurt  Even when grief burns you through  Embrace the essence  Feel the feelings  Allow the burning to scald  For you shall emerge stronger  For to feel is to live and love.

Dreams are so important and I wish when I was a little girl someone had of taken the time to sit me down and say to me "Anything is possible, even impossible says 'I'm possible'" .  *Law of Attraction*  The Secret Rhonda Byrne on Netflix    Actor Ryan Reynolds can be seen reading The Secret by Rhonda Byrne in the movie directed by Patrick Hughes released in 2021 called   Hitman's Wife's Bodyguard official trailer here    This movie follows on four years after the success of The Hitman's Bodyguard released in 2017.   Both movies are action packed and full of comedy starring Ryan Reynolds, Selma Hayek and Samuel L. Jackson. 

Don't forget that even when you like to believe the universe revolves around you and you alone, that it doesn't, it's not all about you.  An act of kindness  An act of love  An act of generosity  A smile from a stranger  A helpful friendly hand  A listening ear  Taking the time to understand.   

Get that monkey off your back, stop feeding him chips!   Forgive yourself first love yourself first.  Whilst there are still chips on your shoulder be sure there is a monkey on your back!  Forgive, lose the chips and the monkey will disappear!  Then you and everyone around will be happier.